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Three Things to Do With Your Next Pay Raise

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Karen Banes
Karen Banes is a freelance writer specializing in entrepreneurship, parenting and lifestyle. Her work has appeared in publications including The Washington Post, Life Info Magazine, Transitions Abroad, Brave New Traveler, Natural Parenting Group, and Copia Magazine.

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Many employees see a pay raise as an excuse to immediately upgrade their lifestyle. The extra money soon disappears, because for many of us when we have more, we spend more. The raise goes on everyday spending, or perhaps a big upgrade like a new car (along with a new, bigger-than-ever monthly car payment).

What this means is that more money simply becomes more stuff, rather than more financial stability and security. The raise gets absorbed by lifestyle inflation, rather than actually improving your finances.

If your aim is financial security and wealth building, you need to treat raises a little differently. Here are three strategies to consider.

Invest

The best thing to do with a raise is pretend you didn’t get it. Don’t spend it. Don’t plan to spend it. Don’t even save it (at least not in to a traditional savings account). Invest it.

For many this is hard to do. You want to reward yourself for that raise with something tangible. But if you can tweak your mindset and learn to see a growing investment account as something tangible, future you will thank you. Take the raise, invest it, and allow your spending to stay exactly the same.

There are exceptions of course. If you have high interest debt or no emergency fund whatsoever, then the extra money should go to this first, but the principle remains the same. You’re still not using the raise on stuff. You’re using it to buy more financial security.

Splurge, but with a Delay

Some people choose to enjoy their new income increase, but with a delay. This is the concept of living ‘one raise behind’. At the beginning of your career, you invest your first big raise, and with the next one you upgrade to the lifestyle someone on your previous salary might have.

There are no hard and fast rules for how to do this. We all need some flexibility with our finances, but embracing the general concept means you are always living within your means, rather than living at the edge of comfort, waiting for the next raise.

Whereas those who invest every raise will continue to live a simple lifestyle long-term, those living one raise behind will allow for lifestyle inflation, just at a slower rate, delaying gratification and building wealth slowly.

If you can let four or five raises go entirely into building wealth, you’ll see big growth and eventually financial freedom. If you live one raise behind, you buy yourself a financial cushion and less day-to-day stress.

Sometimes, of course, the choice isn’t yours. Changes in lifestyle mean changes in expenses that can eat up new raises whether you like it or not. Some people manage to invest every raise easily until they have children for example. Then things get expensive. So if you’re currently childfree but planning to have a family in the future, all the more reason to invest those raises now.

Upgrade, but Strategically

You can really tell when some people get a raise. New car. New phone. New designer handbag. Luxury vacation pics on Instagram. But did they really need (or even want) all those upgrades, all at once?

If you really feel the need to, you can of course spend at least part of your raise on life upgrades, but why not do it strategically? Your best strategy is probably to upgrade just one or two areas that will make a huge difference to your life, regardless of whether they’re the areas other people would upgrade. And — this one is important — even if nobody else will know what you upgraded.

I’m talking things like a new gym membership, a regular housekeeper, a better health insurance policy, or maybe even a weekly massage. Something that will have a big impact on your health, wellbeing, or time use in a way that matters to you, even if you can’t flaunt it in front of the neighbours or post it online.

The strategic upgrade is basically something that significantly improves your life, but doesn’t necessarily impress anyone else.

However you use your next raise, give it the thought and planning that future you deserves. Resist the reflex to immediately turn it into stuff. Let the gap between your income and your lifestyle grow bigger, while your investments and financial freedom do too. Try and avoid the all too common trap of being financially constrained even on a high income, constantly one raise away from truly feeling secure.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is lifestyle inflation?

Lifestyle inflation, sometimes called lifestyle creep, happens when your spending rises every time your income does. A raise gets absorbed by a nicer car, a bigger home or more frequent dining out, so your savings rate stays the same or even falls. Keeping your spending steady when your pay increases is one of the simplest ways to build wealth faster.

Should I use a raise to pay off debt or invest it?

Paying down high-interest debt such as credit card balances usually comes first, because the interest you avoid is often higher than what investments can reliably earn. Building an emergency fund is also a priority before investing heavily. Once those are in place, directing a raise toward long-term investments helps your money grow.

How can I invest my raise automatically?

One of the easiest ways is to raise the percentage you contribute to your workplace retirement plan as soon as your new pay starts, so you never get used to the extra money in your paycheck. Make sure you contribute at least enough to receive any employer match. For 2026, the IRS limit on employee contributions is $24,500 for 401(k) plans and $7,500 for IRAs, before any catch-up contributions for those 50 and older.

What does ‘living one raise behind’ mean?

Living one raise behind means you invest your next raise in full and only let your lifestyle catch up when the following raise arrives. This keeps a permanent gap between what you earn and what you spend, which can be directed toward savings and investments. It allows gradual lifestyle upgrades while still building a financial cushion.

Karen Banes

About the author

Karen Banes

Contributing Writer, Wealthtender

Karen Banes is a freelance writer specializing in entrepreneurship, parenting and lifestyle. She writes articles, website content, ebooks and the occasional award winning short story. Her work has appeared in a range of publications both online and off, including The Washington Post, Life Info Magazine, Transitions Abroad, Brave New Traveler, Natural Parenting Group, and Copia Magazine.

Karen provides copy editing and proofreading services, as well as content creation services, at her website KarenBanes.com.

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